Average Joe

So, I don't really do this too often- you know, the whole taught myself a lesson thing. But I'm gonna have a Dear Diary moment with y'all.

So I have a type. Any one of my friends know what it is, for those who don't -tall, brown to dark, and emaciated slender. I'm also superficial when it comes to mouths. And with this "type" I've gotten into all types of shenanigans over the years. I got caught up in the Matrix with pathological liars, chronic cheaters, whole-bodied assholes, narcissists, etc.

So twenny-leven was the year that I decided to change things. To be more open minded. To date outside my box because it wasn't working for me. Now I've been blessed with good pull. I've dated IT professionals, Engineers, (note the plurals) etc but I wanted to experiment with Average Joe.

Whomp m effin Whomp

The average Joe is not for me. Nope, nope, he's not. When someone says that he is comfortable with his station in life, and knows nothing about creating a stable environment for family - emotionally, spiritually, and financially...its just not going to work. I cant be hungry (ambition-wise) and this dude is chilling on his crackers and cheese lifestyle. Naw..matterfact...hell naw!!


So what did I learn. I learned that I need to stop being lazy and really run far and away when I start seeing red flags. I have a problem with curiosity...and we all know how that turned out. I learned that I shouldn't judge a book by its cover, withstanding teeth- cause if you cant take care of those....then, wtf? Maybe "he" doesn't have to be brown. Maybe he doesn't have to be tall. Maybe he can be a businessman. Will I die if he doesn't have a Masters? No, no I won't. But he has to be extraordinary.