When the Patriarchy Strikes

These simps are running loose nowadays! lawd hammercy. So Father's Day rolls around and a whole heap of ninjas felt the need to "warn" single mothers that Father's Day is only for men and that they shouldn't diminish it by self proclaiming that "they, too, are fathers" so to speak. Well...if the shoe fits, I say wear it! Too many women have to (as in are forced to) be both mom AND dad in their households, and its not fair.

Now, I realize that black folk love to talk about how the WM has systematically tried to tear down the black family, blah blah blah. But where is the accountability for the men? 70% of black children grow up in fatherless homes, and all these negroes aren't in jail; they're either commitment-phobes or life long hoes. In 2015 ain't no white man is coming through a negroes bedroom window at night and whispering in his ear "be a deadbeat father"..."be a baby momma factory"..."spread STDs to your women"..."don't go to college/get a trade so that you're a fucking asset in a relationship instead of liability"...I can go on. There is no psychological warfare that some outsider is perpetuating. We can blame media, but where are the black men to counteract that? We can blame rap, but again where are the black men to counteract that? When do you stop saying "they did" and start saying "we will"?

Men now a days treat Queens and Thots the same damn way. With a Queen, she'll be fed the bullshit until the ass-clown cant keep up the front anymore. The sad and disgusting part is that once the court jester unmasks himself - he doesn't get admonished by society. Nope! It's always the woman's fault. See black women are supposed to be psychic. We have the ability to peer into people's souls to know in advance the nonsense they're capable of. So if he says hes committed, treats you like a wife, you're expecting a ring and then some crazy shit happens - you cant blame anyone but yourself because you should have known. Bitch, HOW?!! How the fuck are we supposed to know? Husbands have left wives, boyfriends have left girlfriends when they've needed them the most...how were these women to know what these men were capable of?

There's no "other" making black men and black women enemies. We don't have enough men setting examples anymore. We don't have enough live-in fathers/husbands setting examples anymore. I shudder to think about what future generations will have to go through. We are lost because the patriarchy thoroughly pushes the blame on females. We are lost because the patriarchy lacks the ability to introspect. We are lost because we have whole heaps of women who support patriarchy.

When a man renders a woman a single mother, she (note I didn't say he) gets told "did he tell you he was ready for a family"?...Bitch, was she?

When a man leaves his girlfriend of 8 years just cause, she gets asked "how could you not  have known he wasn't serious about you?" or told "I would have never stayed with someone that long" blah blah blah. Bitch, do you know what was the understanding between the two of them? 9 times out of 10, someone was being unwittingly strung along.

When a man leaves his wife and 2 kids and moves in with his girlfriend, instead of working on his marriage, she gets asked "how come you didn't make it work?" or "what did you do to push him  away?". Bitch, he's a grown ass clown, go ask him why he decided to be a cowardly piece of shit.

If our community ever wants to restore itself, we have got to stop making excuses for the patriarchy. We gotta stop letting men get away with disastrous activities without accountability. If he's  THOT, there is no "well that's what men do"... or "the flesh is weak" nonsense. He's a THOT and should wear the badge just the same as a woman does if she is of questionable character. Etc.If hes a deadbeat father, niggaz shouldnt be giving that mofo daps in the street, his mother shouldnt be cooking him a warm meal. The whole community has to hold these men accountable.

But Men will never holw other men accountable. Why not? Because glass houses. Why would a cheater call out another cheater when they dont want their shit in the street either.

MLK said the black women is the most unloved underprotected woman on earth and in my opinion its #Facts.