We need to give more hugs to the average children

So I was talking to a guy a few weeks ago. We were doing the whole conversation thing, trying to get to know each other and what not. I'm not going to delve into how wack he was at having a conversation because that's another post. Let me just state that if you are incapable of having a conversation beyond sex, movies, and music, then you might as well play Marco Polo in traffic. Its a deal breaker for me. Again...I digress. So I ask this simple negro a question; in my honest opinion I feel as though the question was very basic. "What makes you special?" Simple right? What makes YOU different from EVERYONE else in the world? What l i t t l e thing you feel sets you a part? I can rattle off a list if you ask me. But him...after like a 3 minute pause this negro says "Nothing." Wait...wait...<>...nothing? "You telling me there's nothing special about you?" *cue another pause* "Nah, there's nothing." Ok, yall. This is when it dawns on me that this negro is dead ass serious. There is no "sike nah" or no "I'm just playing." He was dead ass serious. He couldn't even lie to me. At least lie to me. I was just stunned. And I hit him off with the "ooooooo ok." I instantly felt bad for him because not only am I no longer interested in him (I can't continue to talk to a dude that feels as though he's average and is dumb enough to admit it) but he is living life feeling as though there's nothing special about him. That's sad. I guess that's the plight of an average negro. Too bad I can't relate.