Be Blessed and Praise him because Today is what the Lord has made......
Good Afternoon all on this beautiful sunny Sunday ......after you have washed the club off....brushed the alcohol away....and put on Donny McClurkin to cleanse your soul to start another work week.....let's discuss something serious.....something that is beginning to plague our families, poison our children, and tear our community apart by the seams-----WIFEY for LIFEY!!!!!!
Now I am not one to judge other individuals lifestyle because we all have our own cross to bear, however it is just eating me up inside that we as as community are beginning to move away from the family unit.....It is like Group-think has taken over where the norm is now to get pregnant (baby momma), move in, and do all the duties of a Wife---but remain a girlfriend, a ride-or-die. Let's keep it real....because it's Sunday. You are nothing more than a glorified "bust it baby". I said so what (you can kindly leave the blog....if offended).
LADIES....LADIES.....LADIES....LADIES!!!!!!!
I cannot say this enough. KNOW YOUR WORTH!!! Why are you riding with someone so hard, giving your all, every last part of you for someone who is willing to fuck you anytime he likes but never value you enough to make you his wife. You have 2-3 kids with this dude ...God be my witness if I am a liar.....he will still hit you up like you nothing than a booty call. You shedding tears, updating your status on fb, twitter, telling anyone who will listen. But at the end of the day he tells you what you wanna hear and you are back to the same shit. "I'm his wifey". Imma get real PBS kids on you right now cause maybe I am the first to say it......GIRL YOU ARE SPECIAL.THERE IS NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIKE YOU. YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN ANY DIAMOND, RUBY OR PEARL AND IF ANYONE CANNOT RECOGNIZE THE GIFT THAT YOU ARE THAN KNOW THAT AS LONG AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A STAR.
If that did not do it for you....do it for your kids....Little girls will emulate your behavior....and do you really want your babygirl ending up with Jay-Jay down the street with two kids, on TANF, trying to figuring out when did her dreams became fantasies.....think about it.....
GENTLEMEN.....GENTLEMEN......GENTLEMEN.......
I am so sorry....that you do not know how to treat woman....really I am. You probably never had a good role model yourself. So you just making the shit up as you go. But making babies does not make you man and never trying to own up to your responsibilities will only get you so far. I really think you lack positive self-efficacy. I am not even trying to be on some funny shit. I think you should work on your self-esteem. YOU ARE SPECIAL. and I am sorry no one ever told you that but please do not take your feelings of nothingness in your relationships. It not cool to treat others like crap just cause you never thought your were anything to begin with. I understand Life is hard. I understand you probably have had a hard life. I get all that. But why not try to make right of the life that is ahead of you. Instead of making babies like the shit is going out of style....Why not meet a nice young lady, DATE HER, and let a relationship bloom....and if she is Right then propose, and get married like millions of people everyday.
It just makes me sad....Real sad.......Did you know that 46.2% of African-American children live in single parent families while 12% do not live with a parent at all you do the math......the African-American family is becoming a dying breed.....
Good Afternoon all on this beautiful sunny Sunday ......after you have washed the club off....brushed the alcohol away....and put on Donny McClurkin to cleanse your soul to start another work week.....let's discuss something serious.....something that is beginning to plague our families, poison our children, and tear our community apart by the seams-----WIFEY for LIFEY!!!!!!
Now I am not one to judge other individuals lifestyle because we all have our own cross to bear, however it is just eating me up inside that we as as community are beginning to move away from the family unit.....It is like Group-think has taken over where the norm is now to get pregnant (baby momma), move in, and do all the duties of a Wife---but remain a girlfriend, a ride-or-die. Let's keep it real....because it's Sunday. You are nothing more than a glorified "bust it baby". I said so what (you can kindly leave the blog....if offended).
LADIES....LADIES.....LADIES....LADIES!!!!!!!
I cannot say this enough. KNOW YOUR WORTH!!! Why are you riding with someone so hard, giving your all, every last part of you for someone who is willing to fuck you anytime he likes but never value you enough to make you his wife. You have 2-3 kids with this dude ...God be my witness if I am a liar.....he will still hit you up like you nothing than a booty call. You shedding tears, updating your status on fb, twitter, telling anyone who will listen. But at the end of the day he tells you what you wanna hear and you are back to the same shit. "I'm his wifey". Imma get real PBS kids on you right now cause maybe I am the first to say it......GIRL YOU ARE SPECIAL.THERE IS NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIKE YOU. YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN ANY DIAMOND, RUBY OR PEARL AND IF ANYONE CANNOT RECOGNIZE THE GIFT THAT YOU ARE THAN KNOW THAT AS LONG AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A STAR.
If that did not do it for you....do it for your kids....Little girls will emulate your behavior....and do you really want your babygirl ending up with Jay-Jay down the street with two kids, on TANF, trying to figuring out when did her dreams became fantasies.....think about it.....
GENTLEMEN.....GENTLEMEN......GENTLEMEN.......
I am so sorry....that you do not know how to treat woman....really I am. You probably never had a good role model yourself. So you just making the shit up as you go. But making babies does not make you man and never trying to own up to your responsibilities will only get you so far. I really think you lack positive self-efficacy. I am not even trying to be on some funny shit. I think you should work on your self-esteem. YOU ARE SPECIAL. and I am sorry no one ever told you that but please do not take your feelings of nothingness in your relationships. It not cool to treat others like crap just cause you never thought your were anything to begin with. I understand Life is hard. I understand you probably have had a hard life. I get all that. But why not try to make right of the life that is ahead of you. Instead of making babies like the shit is going out of style....Why not meet a nice young lady, DATE HER, and let a relationship bloom....and if she is Right then propose, and get married like millions of people everyday.
It just makes me sad....Real sad.......Did you know that 46.2% of African-American children live in single parent families while 12% do not live with a parent at all you do the math......the African-American family is becoming a dying breed.....
WE GOTS TO DO BETTER
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